Kid leaving for college?
Here are some important forms you need to fill in first:
Before your child or dependent leaves for college this fall, it’s critical that you establish with them exactly how much involvement you will continue to have in their lives, and that – in a truly pedestrian sense – means filling in a sheaf of forms.
You and your college-bound child may not even be aware, but when they turn 18, the outside world considers them a fully independent adult with rights of privacy and decision-making. In order to prevent you from being actively excluded from their medical, financial, and other affairs, it is necessary to generate legal instruments that clearly lay out the terms of your future involvement.
The most pressing concern is healthcare. If an 18-year-old is in an accident, their parents do not have the right to access their child’s medical status, much less the ability to make important medical decisions, unless they are previously authorized to do so by the adult child. This applies even if your young adult is on your health insurance plan!
Furthermore, banking, school, or medical officials are legally barred from communicating with parents without the young adult’s authorization. Make sure you have addressed these potential barriers before waving your son or daughter off on his or her great adventure.
Your child may not be eager to sign away their freedom of agency right at the moment they’re venturing out into a world of independence. But if you initiate a conversation about what they would like to happen in the event of an emergency, it’s likely common sense will prevail.
You should also use the opportunity to discuss other ways they would like you to stay involved, including in their finances, health insurance, property insurance and access to grades.
But, at a minimum, we recommend you and your child complete the first forms marked in blue. You will also want to consider the others related to mental health and financial matters.
In some cases, you may need to complete multiple versions of the same forms, in order to be sure they are accepted by the college and the local authorities in your home state, the state where your child will be studying, and adjoining states if the school is close to a state line (for example, students at Dartmouth, New Hampshire, regularly make the short hop over to Vermont). Check your child’s college website for recommended forms that are acceptable. You may well have already received some suggestions.
As ever, if you have questions or need guidance, your Bridgewater team is here to help in any way we can.
And lastly…
Send them off with a folder of documents (virtual or paper). Make sure they have a copy, or online access, to their full health records. Same with all the authorization forms. Get copies of their prescriptions so they can fill them while they’re away. And, of course, make sure you have a duplicate folder too.
If you have questions or need advice or insights, don’t hesitate to reach out.
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